Cyfs lies won

will they did it the system stole my son they sent me the lettter today from the courts to confirm the Judges bullshit Cyfs are great and Im not and Cyfs are the ones to have my son due to many reasons a normal fucken person would live like - they are going to give him some kinda better life and im so angry so angry at them for this I do not deserve to lose my son.
If the last thing on earth that I can manage to do is to change this god dam child stealing system I will .
Thats my christmas present today -Makes me wonder how these Judges and Lawyers and social workers can sleep at nightafter taking children from their parents I hope and pray that every body that was invovled in the stealing of my son has a lousy Christmas .

So these people that take our kids why are they not questioned to the indensity that us who have had our children taken- I mean I was put on the stand by the residing judge and asked some very personal questions most of them not relevant to the situation, - The judge seemed to have very personal views on some issues and I found my hot little head wanting to challange him and that as we know is not the best way to handle a judge- but to me enough is enough what right does the family court have to no more about my life than i no about it. Be careful if you are ever in this situations these lawyers have all the little tricks schemed up they say on purpose I think the most irritating things so you react and they can prove to the judge the angry character they make you out to be - my last Cyfs report they said they sent a letter to my sons school and said if I am seen around the school I will be there trying to kidnap my son - now you know why say that, and tha t i need a physiactric report done on my mental health - sounds great dosnt it a physco kidnapping Mother - but the creeps in the court believe all this shit they write - so I am now going to ask for proof of all their accusations - I have been told Im appearently this ad that so proof is needed - dont

High Court

will wish me luck im of to the high court on Monday to see if I can get the declaration done on my son overturned - so im going to the court of appeal to see what I can do - Im quite bloody scared about it to - they are like the Devil rising out of the fire these Cyfs lawyers and family court judges and all the rest of the Devils on the government pay list. I hope I can get across to the appeal Judge where I am coming from- because there aint no use in going in there with your emotions they dont take that on thats a nothing problem to them - honestly they say things like " we know it must have been distressing for you," now lets move on" and you sit there thinking distressing its ruined my life turned it upside down and some more - I dont suppose they would hire people in those jobs (social workers /judges etc) with any brains and emotions. I mean look at some of the decisions they have made - Just because these people are academic does not make them wise- anyway back to what i was originally started talking about. Court of appeal sent me this amazingly legally technical letter about what i am suppose to have prepared for the appeal day - hopefully I get my head around all this gobbly goop I think its the Ministry lawyers requirements and shes trying to scare me with her lawyer knowledge.

To keep my sanity while going through all this instead of taking up drinking I have now taken up crafts these are my first 2 projects- you can buy them if you like them - I loved making them and would gladly make more

CYFS - my hideous experience with them: CYFS - my hideous experience with them: My experience with Child Youth and Family

CYFS - my hideous experience with them: CYFS - my hideous experience with them: My experience with Child Youth and Family

Hi at the moment heres where i am at with Cyfs - now Cyfs have put a custody order out to take my son from me until he is 21, I only learnt that this was what they were planning on doing by mistake, - The weird way they went about it was strange the court called me and said they had a review for me to be delivered to me - and said that it must be delivered by the Bayliff- that immediately rang alarm bells to me,- so I looked into what this review was all about and turns out it was actually a custody order to take my son from me. I had one night to place a defence into this yet another disgusting move by Cyfs- Over my dead body I thought are those total imcompetent Cyfs people going to make decisions for MY son for the future. So I got my defence in and on time too. There was never any proven facts that my son should be taken from me. So I put it to Cyfs in my defence - if your organisation is that great how come children have died under your care have been raped under your care, have lived under privilaged lifes under your care, and the list of Cyfs inability to care for children is insurmountable - Now let Cyfs defend themselves

CYFS - my hideous experience with them: My experience with Child Youth and Family

CYFS - my hideous experience with them: My experience with Child Youth and Family

life not being a mum anymore

yep so thats whats happened im now not a woman who has a child to care for- when i started to snap out the fact my that my son was not coming back- i had to face the fact that his bedroom had to be emptied and his things needed packing up- so i bit my lip aend took a deep breathe and faced his room. and there were all his toys where he had last played with them - the last clothes he had worn- and his little fluffy rug he took to bed everynight, all his things just left as if he just disappeared. i couldnt handle it man it shattered me, i didnt no what to do i just wanted to die. i couldnt pack up my sons things- i just bawled my eyes out everytime i touched something of his.
then came the feeling of what is this all about im here for my son - hes not here- what do i DO

CYFS - my hideous experience with them: My experience with Child Youth and Family

CYFS - my hideous experience with them: My experience with Child Youth and Family

corruptness of the system

corruption in the system now should not people be aware of this, I guess you only would be unless you actually experience it yourself. I could not believe that it went to the level that it did. anyhow my aim is to actually tell you what I experience from cyfs themselves like I said I wrote it all down in a diary and I hope this expresses to the system at least the human side to it and for other people who are touched by cyfs that what you are experienceing is normal and you are not going crazy.
I think it took me about 3 days to truely believe my son wasnt coming back I kinda went into shock i suppose, there was a total denial happening. on the 3rd day I recieved a phone call from the social worker Mellissa feildson asking me to come into the office and discuss my sons future and to work out some sort of a plan- in my mind I was thinking what is this woman on she thinks I want to go and see HER . So I said hey you took my son I do not want to talk to you or even look at you, I said to her that I wouldnt want to be in the same room as the person that signed a pieace of paper to have MY son taken and hung up on her - you have to realise I was beginning to become ver distressed and my head was all over the place- how could Cyfs possibly think that anyone that had just had their child taken from them be able to make any rational and sane decision about such a important situation as your child

Cyfs called me the other day and asked me if I wanted supervised visits to my son- what a joke man this is the little boy that I have raised through his life from the day he was born until he was nine years old. It was proved in court that there were no care and protection issues for my son at all and still I am not allowed to see him for more than 2 hours a week unsupervised- I told them never to bother ringing me again and any correspondance from them to me can be written and posted - I dont trust them they are out right liars and anyone that is going through this trust me they are Cyfs that is are blantant liars.-

I would love to hear from other people who have had their children taken by Cyfs. I kept a diary from the day they took my son and wrote down everything about my experience of losing my son and the incredible emotional side of it all and to add to all that the experience of dealing with Cyfs themselves and the lies that they tell.
Then dealing with the family court now come on arnt they just the most horribleist people you could ever deal with.
No-one could have told me about the effect this would have had on me, no one could have, There is support for people that have their children uplifted, the only port of call you end up left with are the horrible legal aide lawyers that milk the system for all it worth, and they generally advise you in a direction that supports their own means of making a income.
so you can imagine what reaction I have experienced by taking a stand against Cyfs and not allowing myself to be bullied by them - will in my next posting I will write of some of my hideous experiences with the ever awful Child youth and family

I had no idea Cyfs were planning on taking my son - I had very little idea as to how the system it self worked I had heard bits here and there and in my own way listened- but boy I now wish that I listened and listened hard- SO I learnt the hard way all by myself , what a bunch of liers Cyfs are there lies are out of this world and a Judge listens to them What a joke